I guess sadness comes in threes

I will try to post the pigture from yesterday's pigture but I need to post this one first.
Okay, now I know I said less texting - more pigtures.  Today, I have to share something very disturbing to me.  Most of you who know me do know I am very sensitive to family and friend issues.  I have been holding this announcement in and I still get emotional about it.

Our Son, Travis and our daugther-in-law, Melissa are separating.  I can hardly even put this in writing, but I know many of you have been through something like this, too.  I am open to suggestions on how to cope.  I think I'm doing the best I can.  I never wanted either of our children to give up and go separate ways.  I can't understand why they can't work together and make it work. I think alot of it is just plain selfishness and not trying to be a team. Just another stopping point and move on to the next possibility. Perhaps not working on a solution to make the relationship stronger but just wanting what each other wants for themselves and not what's best for the home unit. Probably not..... I know adults will survive in the best way they can.  It's the grandchildren.  While Colton is not our biological grandson; we have considered him our grandson anyway. We don't see him as much as we would like because he is shared between Melissa and his biological Dad.
He is 12 and that's an age where most kids don't want to be around some of us "old" people. Hahahaha!
Raina is Travis and Melissa's daughter.  That's just heartbreaking to us.  Melissa travels alot and doing her thing and he is always here to give the "Mr Mom" tasks.   Anyway, I know they have to work it out between themselves.  I have my opinions but I will keep them to myself or in the circle of close family and friends.
I've got my great strength and support from above and everyone right here in my life.
Thank you dear friends.  I need it now.   pinkpigy@aol.com